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Testing People through Changing my Behavior (Day 62)

The other day I met a girl while playing with my band and after the show we talked for a while, ate some stuff and then she asked me “do you have some room for me in your car?” and we agreed that I would drive her home, because she lives near my house.
We (my friends and this girl) while driving home stopped to smoke and chat for a while before going home.
There’s a kind of joke that I tell people when they ask “can I smoke inside you car?”
I pretend I am serious and say “Look, you are allowed to smoke, but there’s one condition; you have to take responsibility. Pay attention to the cigarette while smoking and do not burn anything. Here you have an ashtray. You have already been told and provided with the tools in order to avoid burning my car, So... if you fuck it up and burn it, you ... have to give me a Blow Job”. 
I get all sorts of reactions; some laugh, others do not know what to say at first and then laugh, but the reactions are mostly funny.
The point is that that day, after the gi…

Part II - Words and Concepts: Being an Ignorant - Does it make me Innocent or Guilty? (Day 61)

This is the continuation of my previous post with regards to the word Ignorance. Now, I am going to continue applying the Deconstruction process through Self-Forgiveness.
I forgive myself that I haven't accepted and allowed myself to investigate what I require to know when I am going to buy/do something for the first time.
I forgive myself that I haven't accepted and allowed myself to see, realize and understand that through not investigating, I am giving my power to the system, because I am just acting as a secondary character - a follower - who does not dare to lead/direct his own actions through a previous investigation.
I forgive myself that I haven't accepted and allowed myself to be the main actor through investigating when I have to buy/do something for the first time.
I forgive myself that I have accepted and allowed myself to trust others when I think “it doesn’t matter if I am not well informed, because the people there must be able to help me”, and in doing so, I am…

Words and Concepts: Being an Ignorant - Does it make me Innocent or Guilty? (Day 60)

Within this post I am going to share a question that I have been expressing while being with some workmates, friends and family with regards to the word Ignorance.
The question goes as it follows: Does being an Ignorant make me Innocent or Guilty?
I have heard that being an Ignorant makes you Innocent, just like a child when he/she is discovering the world and sometimes “makes mistakes” without knowing how to manage a specific event, because he/she had never experienced it before.
But, let’s have a look at the definition of Ignorant:
Ignorant / Adjective:
1.Lacking in knowledge or training; unlearned. 2.Uninformed; unaware. 3.Lacking knowledge or information as to a particular subject or fact.
How have I experienced this in my life? The other day I had to buy new tires for my car and my dad said he wanted to go with me. 
For you to know a little bit more about my dad: He is very organized, he always writes down the prices of everything and he knows where to buy the cheapest things in order to …

Hating Girlfriends (Day 59)

A couple of days ago I was talking with a friend (P) about going out for vacation and then meet some other friends that live in a different city so as to visit them and hang out together. 
I know “P” had broken up with his girlfriend some months ago, but he told me they started seeing each other again and for some reason I didn’t like that news.
I remember “P” telling me the problems he had to face with his girlfriend; anger reactions, jealousy, insecurity, etc, etc and I suggested that they should stay apart for a while and learn how to walk as one first and then start a relationship/agreement but once they are “ready”, meaning learning how to take self-responsibility for themselves, because they were participating in the endless cycle of breaking up, starting again, breaking up, starting again, etc, etc, etc.
I told him that I have been single for over 2 years now and that when you break up, you have to be alone for a while, because that is going to give you a wider perspective of ever…